January 26, 2010. Raleigh, North Carolina.. Antje Newby, worked in advertising in Detroit until she lost her job in late 2008. Soon after, her husband Tom's work in commercial flooring dried up. They fell behind on their bills and their home is now in foreclosure. In September, she got a job in Raleigh as an account director at another advertising agency and within three weeks had packed up her family--three kids, including a junior in high school--and moved.. Tom talks to Antje on the phone. He is in charge of most of the household duties and stays at home all day with their 4 year old son, Tommy as they can not afford daycare on Antje's salary.